Mistaken about Taken

I was once asked on Twitter "why do girls in relationships go to clubs?". I'm sorry, but I failed to see a clause in the admission policy that all girls within 'MUST be single'. What idiocy?
Dress : Topshop | Heels : Debenhams
It makes no sense that a guy can go on a lads' weekend to be it Prague/ Amsterdam, get wasted and plead the fifth (and lets all pray its the truth), yet a girl is supposed to (in the 21st Century, might I remind you) stay at home knitting him a warm jumper awaiting his return. Come off it son!
It baffles me that those who utter such ignorant questions see no err in the wording or the logic of that statement. Does clubbing equate to promiscuity? The lad in question further went on to query the apparel donned by said ladies in question, proceeding to enquire about their sensual demeanour as they get 'turnt up', and finishing by questioning their disregard for male attention upon interest. BINGO! He'd finally hit the jackpot. So, the foundation of his qualms rested on the fact that these said girls were 'taken', and he didn't have a shot in the world. Mate! Look elsewhere init? I have likened the single market to a commercial marketplace in the past, and in light of this, its easy to see the club as the Abercrombie & Fitch of retail stores. Its dimly lit & those inside are decked out in barely anything; all VERY pleasing to the eye. So, you move towards a particular merchandise and it isn't available in your size? You move the fug on son! You don't wail about the unfairness. You don't whine about wasting your time prowling the shopping mall. You literally move the fug on/ place an order to reserve your size when next available.
Non-single girls in clubs are much the same. Yes, they are taken, but are they not permitted the same amount of fun as the rest of the inhabitants on God's green earth? CHILL! Don't be mad 'cos she shut you down for something better at home. Yes, she's dressed pretty seductively, but who said it was for your eyes only? Yes, she's getting turn't up pretty erotically, but who said it was to entice you to join? Geez! Guys need to fall back. Just like you're with a gang of lads, all wing-manning for one another, so also is she allowed the liberty to enjoy her GNO (Girls Night Out) in peace. End of.
Onyxsta says...BLEURGH!! If you're under the premise that a girl can't be free in a club 'cos she's taken. I hope upon this read you'll find you're quite mistaken. Xisses.

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  1. well i agree with you! you look very lovely

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  2. Exactly..Greast post hun..& love ur hair x

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  3. LOL I'm still constantly baffled by girls whose boyfriends don't allow them to go clubbing. tf?

    eznira.blogspot.com

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    1. Mate, it makes absolutely NO sense to me!
      Especially as they're out almost every other weekend with their boys...please! LOL

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  4. Hahahaha I totally agree with you on the points you made

    wwww.celebrtingyourcurves.blogspot,com

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    1. Thanks for reading & i'm honoured that you agree with my opinion.
      Us girls need to stick together in proving this point lol

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  5. Your right. It would make me feel uneasy about a relationship if a boyfriend felt that clubbing equated promiscuity... what does he do in a club then?!
    Your dress is stunning!

    Robyn Mayday
    xx

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    1. EXACTLY!
      Makes you question HIS motives on a night out...hmmmm

      Thanks sweetie x

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  6. I love this haircut on you. so pretty

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    1. Thanks hun! Thinking of switching it up though...need something longer to shield my neck against the shivers

      BRRRRRRRR!!! its too cold for a crop!

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  7. Another great post xo

    Minnie
    http://mikesfashion.blogspot.co.uk/

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  8. Totally agree with you!
    Super cute outfit too!
    Sugar Filled Closet

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    1. I'm glad so many girls agree!
      I feel like starting a movement lol...just kidding!
      But I do feel that the more women think like this and voice it, the better men will understand the logic behind an innocent GNO

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  9. I can't believe someone actually said that. That's the crazy. I always thought the purpose of going clubbing was to have fun and ''pulling' was just a by product of this. Haha.
    Love your dress, the detail on the shoulders make it so pretty.

    Lola x

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    1. Honestly, I couldn't believe I was even having that conversation either!
      It was a while back & I'd been meaning to blog about it but kept procrastinating. But after the wknd in manchester and a few other blog-worthy issues I encountered up there, it had to be done LOL!!

      Thanks sweetie xx

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  10. Well said. Great pics too :)

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    1. Thanks hun. I'm honoured, coming from you.
      Such a prestigious writer :)

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  11. I just love this girl, great dress mama!
    stylishedforever.blogspot.com

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    1. LOL I love you too boo!!! OBSESSED with your style!

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  12. Lookin' fabulous, Onyxta!

    Edita
    www.pret-a-reporter.co.uk

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  13. Haha..really enjoyed this post.You look lovely!!!

    -S-

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    1. Glad you did hun!
      I'm quite outspoken and thought it right to speak my mind on this point....steer some guys aright lol

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  14. i loved this post, it is so relevant to my life right now! i was in limbo with wanting to wear nice things but didn't want the attention from guys - but hey, it's not my fault if guys crack on! haha maybe we wouldn't have these thoughts if guys weren't so letchy! a girl can wear what she wants and act how she wants and if she isn't cheating, then it's fine! having fun is not cheating - a guy should never comment on a girl going clubbing. not all girls are attention whores, girls want to look nice so they feel nice, not so they are chatted up! woo loved this post girl! x

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    1. preach! I love your blog Selina & you' 've got an amazing figure.
      I'm sorry but you have every right to flaunt it when and how you want. it's not attention seeking. girls just like dolling up for a night out, sue us! LOL

      I back you up 100%

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  15. awww thank you sweetie
    people really do say the silliest things

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  16. init!!! loooool
    u look tres cute btw

    http://labellavitahearts.blogspot.co.uk/

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    1. LOL Glad you liked the post :)

      Thanks boo x

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